Visual vs Touch

I am drawn to guys with beard / facial hair but I love the feel of a smooth body.

Is that ok?

Goodbye, Messenger

A couple of days ago, Microsoft folded the MSN messenger service (or more correctly the Windows Live Messenger). The decision was made in November last year but I had already left a year ago when I started using a Mac. The world has moved on. But for at least eight years, that's a third of my life, I was on it everyday, even if it was just running in the background.

I had an account for all the "real" contacts and and a separate one for horny chats and hook-ups. On the naughty account I had profile pictures that were more revealing and I guess you could say attention seeking. When some guy came along on Gaydar that seemed hot (I already had a profile before I was legal) we would add each other on MSN and chat. Of course when I was a teenager it was mostly just chatting and swapping pics. But going into university I had a lot more freedom and the chance of these chats ending up in actual encounters increase exponentially.

It was still quite different before everyone was on Grindr though. Guys were more willing to chat, about everyday stuff. And you wouldn't expect the other person to agree to meet in the next ten minutes and block them if they didn't. I dug up the chat history files and I remembered what it was like. Half of the guys with a conversation history I didn't have a clue who they were anymore but the chats were amusing.

I was looking at this photo, wondering why the fuck we never shagged.

Then one of the chat histories reminded me who he was. He was an athlete and occasional sport presenter. He was a nice man. But I found out he was a lot older than when the photo was taken. That's cheating. I wasn't impressed. Anyway.

So this is the end of the MSN messenger era.

Cum meet my new neighbour

I was taking the rubbish out when I saw a few more cars than usual in the parking area. When I came back a hot guy was standing by the entrance to the block, watching a van pull up. He said hi and I said hi. Turned out he was moving into the flat on the floor above. WHAT? You mean this stunner is going to be my neighbour? Some of the flats here go through tenants pretty regularly but I have never seen anyone with above-average looks - don't get me wrong most of them are nice people but "nice" and "hot" don't usually happen at the same time.

This guy though, he had a lot of stuff. There was an older man and lady, who I assumed were his parents, helping him shift his stuff and they just kept unloading out of that van and another big car. Two double mattresses? A massive flat screen TV? Big pieces of souvenir crap people buy when they go to exotic countries and I think I saw a Samurai sword somewhere too. If his flat is the same size as mine then it probably looks like the back room of a charity shop now.

Well if he needs somewhere to sleep before he can find space on his bed, tell him I'm in number 65.

(This is the same guy but without the tight fitting jumper - phwoar...)

Starting the engine

I am sick of getting overtaken by fast cars. And to be honest, an average car has better acceleration than mine. Don't get me wrong it's goodlooking and perfectly adequate for everyday use and getting around for work. But it gives me as much excitement as a Disney film. So I'm going to get a motorbike. It will be a long journey of saving up and shit but I told myself that I needed to at least get the ball rolling this year. And I did. I have done my CBT training and got the certificate so I can now ride with L plates. Fuck yeah.

There was another young guy on the CBT course that day. He was in a blue long sleeved top with Brian, the dog from Family Guy, on it underneath his racer jacket. I thought he was pretty hot until he started talking - like a scally boy. He had a lot to say but most of it was shit. Some people find scally boy porn horny but they don't do anything for me. He was only 19 which meant even when he passed the final test he'd still be restricted on motorbike size (fortunately!). And he was already dad of a little boy. I just hope he had a proper job and wasn't living off my tax money.

Nature's best

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The first thing I did...

...on Good Friday. How Christian of me.

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In control

I have mentioned this older guy before (in this post) who I have started to see regularly, about once a week. But in the beginning when we met anonymously and just fucked in the dark, I wanted his cock and nothing more. After blowing my load I'd always just want to get up and go although he'd want to cuddle for a bit which I found a bit uncomfortable. Then it all changed when I started to see him as a person.

But one thing that hasn't changed is that he likes to be in control in bed. Sometimes he takes my hand off my cock to make sure I'm not enjoying myself too much. And when he wants me to cum he'd always pin my hands down above my head with one hand and, with his spit in the other, stroke my cock until I blow and I can't do anything to stop him.

I think he likes to be dominant that's why he's a copper.